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Wives, widows of Syrian detainees hardly freer than their husbands

By Al-Mashareq and AFP

Widows of Syrian detainees struggle in Lebanon

BEKAA VALLEY, Lebanon -- In the decade since Syria's regime pronounced her jailed husband dead, Ramya al-Sous was threatened by security forces, locked out of her spouse's estate and forced to flee abroad.

The mother of three, now a refugee living in Lebanon, was never told how her husband died and is unable to sell or rent the properties confiscated by authorities.

"By virtue of me being a woman, everything becomes nearly impossible," she said, echoing a plight shared by many wives and widows of Syrian prisoners.

But the 40-year-old wants to put up a fight.

Syrians await the release of relatives held in regime prisons on May 3 in the centre of Damascus after a general amnesty was issued by Syrian President Bashar al-Assad. [Louai Beshara/AFP]

Syrians await the release of relatives held in regime prisons on May 3 in the centre of Damascus after a general amnesty was issued by Syrian President Bashar al-Assad. [Louai Beshara/AFP]

Syrian refugee Ramya al-Sous inspects her family documents at her apartment in the Bekaa Valley, Lebanon, on June 13. [Dylan Collins/AFP]

Syrian refugee Ramya al-Sous inspects her family documents at her apartment in the Bekaa Valley, Lebanon, on June 13. [Dylan Collins/AFP]

"My children wouldn't have suffered as much if it had been me who was detained," she said. "They were left with nothing, but I insist on winning something back."

Syrian President Bashar al-Assad's regime waged a brutal crackdown on an uprising in 2011, sparking a war that has killed about half a million people.

About the same number of people, mostly men, are estimated to have been detained in regime prisons since, with tens of thousands dying either under torture or from poor conditions.

Outside prison walls, their wives are anything but free, facing a maze of red tape in a society and legal system that favours men, said Ghazwan Kronfol, a Syrian lawyer living in Istanbul.

Without their husbands' formal death certificates, widows may not claim inheritance or property ownership, he said.

Nor may they access their dead husbands' real estate if it was confiscated or escrowed by the state, the lawyer added.

Worse still, guardianship over their children is not guaranteed, with judges often granting it to a male next of kin.

"All of this comes on top of financial blackmail and sexual harassment" by regime security officers, Kronfol said.

'Easy prey'

Syria's 2012 anti-terrorism law stipulates the government may temporarily or permanently seize the properties of prisoners accused of terrorism -- a blanket charge used to detain civilians suspected of opposition links.

The government is believed to have seized $1.54 billion worth of prisoner assets since 2011, according to an April report by The Association of Detainees and The Missing in Sednaya Prison, which uses an alternate spelling of the prison's name.

The Turkey-based watchdog was founded by former detainees held in Saydnaya, a jail on the outskirts of Damascus that is the largest in the country and has long been synonymous with torture and the darkest abuses of the Syrian regime.

Between 2011 and 2015, groups of at least 50 inmates at Saydnaya prison were taken out of their cells every week, beaten and then hanged in the middle of the night in "utmost secrecy", a 2017 Amnesty International report said.

Earlier this year, The New York Times reported that the bodies coming from Saydnaya prison often appeared to be those of recently dead individuals, and that some had what looked like rope marks around their necks or gunshot wounds.

Sous's house and farmland were among the properties escrowed after her husband was arrested in a raid in 2013 and later hit with terrorism-related charges she says were trumped up.

A few months later, authorities handed her a "corpse number", she said.

Alone and poor, she spent years bouncing around from one security branch to another as she tried to clear bureaucratic hurdles.

Sous said she was met mainly with harassment and intimidation.

"Women are easy prey," she said.

Fearing persecution by regime forces, she fled to neighbouring Lebanon in 2016, clutching the old red and white plastic bag in which she keeps her property deeds and reams of other official documents.

She has little money left but continues to pay bribes and lawyer fees in an attempt to reclaim assets from the state.

"I want to sell them, not for me but for my children."

New doors opened

Salma, a 43-year-old mother of four, also fled to Lebanon after her husband disappeared inside the black hole of Syria's prison system.

The one time she enquired about his fate in 2015, regime forces locked her in a room and threatened her.

"I never asked about him again," Salma said, asking to use a pseudonym due to security concerns.

When she tried to sell her husband's car and house, she found they had been seized by the state.

"I sold all my jewellery to buy that house," she said.

In their ordeal, some women have found a rare silver lining with the empowerment that being left to their own devices has brought about.

Tuqqa, a 45-year-old mother of five whose husband also disappeared in prison, said her life was already hard before the war because of social and religious conservatism.

"I wasn't even allowed to open the front door of the house, let alone go out to buy groceries or bread," she said.

But all that changed when she became the sole guardian of her children.

She eventually moved to Lebanon, where she secured work and attended livelihood trainings and workshops run by aid groups, a leap from her previously sheltered life.

Her children may not inherit a family house from their father, but Tuqqa is adamant they will inherit new values from her.

"I am not raising my children the way I was raised," she said.

While the odds are stacked against her, Tuqqa said she feels ready to face the challenges ahead.

"I lost a lot, but I became a strong woman," she said.

"I am no longer the woman living behind closed doors."

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